When Compassion Won’t Let Us Walk Away (Twentieth Ordinary)


Jesus ignored her. The disciples protested, “Now she’s bothering us. Would you please take care of her? She’s driving us crazy.” Jesus refused, telling them, “I’ve got my hands full dealing with the lost sheep of Israel.” Then the woman came back to Jesus, went to her knees, begging. “Master, help me.” Jesus gave in. “Oh woman, your faith is something else. What you want is what you get!” Right then her daughter became well. (Matthew 15: 23 – 25, 28)

A woman approaches Jesus with a desperate request. At first, Jesus seems to ignore her. His disciples want the conversation to end. But she persists. She refuses to disappear into the background, and eventually Jesus responds to her courage and faith.

There is something deeply challenging here for anyone who works in a Catholic school.

Every day, students, families and colleagues bring us stories we cannot always see. A student who seems disengaged may be carrying something heavy. A colleague who appears difficult may be exhausted. A family that seems demanding may simply be desperate to be heard.

The temptation in education is sometimes to protect our time, manage the problem and move on. But the Gospel asks something more of us.

It asks us to notice.

To listen.

To stay present when walking away would be easier.

Catholic education is not simply about delivering curriculum, meeting deadlines or keeping things running. It is about recognising the dignity of the person standing in front of us, especially when their needs interrupt our plans.

The Canaanite woman reminds us that sometimes the people who challenge us most are the people who have something important to teach us.

So perhaps the question for today is simple: Who is asking to be noticed, heard or understood in our school right now? And what might happen if, instead of moving them along, we stopped long enough to truly listen?

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